Friday, June 19, 2026

Sensical Approach to Cultural War

 

Sensical Approach to Cultural War
Stop Moaning

“This country was born in turmoil and conflict.”

 I’ve done a lot of soul searching since the pandemic when the world seemed to be turned upside down. In May 2021, my own neighborhood was invaded The Black Lives Matter organization. It was disturbing and thought provoking. I spent time wondering what I have missed and how maybe my own perspective is distorted. Then I found an article written from an interview with Annette Gordon-Reed. Annette is a Pulitzer Prize winning writer. This article was about her book The Hemingses of Monticello: An American Family.  I think she covers it quite nicely.

As a child Annette loved to read, more specifically biographies. She read about George Washington Carver, George Washinton, Thomas Jefferson, Dolley Madison, etc. Jefferson was the most interesting to her because he loved to read, and he wrote the Declaration of Independence…but he was a slave owner. Sally Hemings’ children were fathered by Jefferson. Annette says that though they were enslaved people, bound by the institution of slavery, they were also mothers, fathers, sisters, aunts, friends, etc. They had different personalities, different ways of going through the world. Their opportunities were severely circumscribed because of slavery but she wants to view them as individual human beings.

She understands why people would not want to name something after Jefferson, but “we have to grapple with him, because he embodies the contradictions of this country, the good things and the bad things.” Members of the founding generation of our nation must be a part of the conversation. The statues and things named for them present an opportunity to talk about the way this country was born. Annette believes that we can’t take out those parts of history because they are less favorable, yet they make us who we are today.

Annette is optimistic about the young people today because they have grown up thinking there is a problem, and it’s a problem we must deal with. She believes that some don’t want to talk about history, and she thinks young people are resisting that. She plans to write more books about the Black progress that has been made.

In 1964, Annette Gordon-Reed was a child growing up in Conroe, Texas. She was part of the generation, just as I was, that lived during the integration of schools. It was intense because it was a big deal for a Black child to go to a white school. We lived during a time where we had separate waiting rooms at the doctor’s office and Blacks were seated in the balcony at theaters. We were part of breaking those barriers.

Today, we name things also for ALL people who have made a difference in communities, state, and nation. There are no barriers. The walls have crumbled, and we must be aware how much we have grown as a nation. A new school in Conroe was recently named Annette Gordon-Reed Elementary School. Let’s celebrate our successes and stop groaning about the history which led us to this place today.


Wednesday, May 20, 2026

Our Baby Brother

 TROY ROBERT LONG
1961 - 2019


We lost our baby brother on 20 May 2019. Oh, how my heart hurts for what could have been. We had recently been reunited with him and were looking so forward to him coming to join us on the mountain on May 28 when his son Isaac got out of school. (we had fallen out of his favor when we purchased the mountain property in 2008) It was going to be the start of what I had dreamed about! I loved Troy as the little brother that I never had. He was one of the two people that I always thought would be there for me. That wasn't in God's plans. 

We had just gotten to the mountains on May 15, had settled in when a heavy snow began to fall. We had gone out to play in the snow when we got a call from his son Michael that Troy had been found deceased in his home, earlier that morning. Nightmares are created from this type of call. We were frantic to make arrangements to get off the mountain and head back home, and we were trying to support Michael long distance. The snow had begun to melt, but we only had a window of time to get out on the road. More snow was on the way. I think we were packed and ready to leave by 1 pm. Our journey out was a bit dicey, but we got off the mountain. What lay ahead of us was to be the heaviest snowfall that Colorado had seen that late in the year since 1898. Another nightmare. We altered our route and made it home safely, but there were days and weeks of mourning the loss of one of my soulmates. He guarded and protected me through many occasions, and I miss him just as much or more today as I did on the day we lost him.

Friday, May 15, 2026

THIS Baby Girl



 My niece, part of my heart and soul, was born on 15 May 1981. We spent many hours together, probably more than she can even remember. She was a huge part of my life from the day she was born. I cherish every moment that we were afforded together. Thank you, Lord, for bringing her into my life and I pray that your divine guidance will shine a light on her path forward.

Sunday, May 10, 2026

Eula Frances McNair Obituary

 Explains when the family arrived in the area.

Abilene Reporter News 14-A Wed Feb 17, 1954



Saturday, May 9, 2026

History Sheet Mack McNair

Mack Manilus McNair was born on 10 April 1847 in Tennessee, probably Bradley County. He was the fourteenth child of John (Jack) McNair and Mary Ann “Polly” Sherertz.  John always wanted to serve in the military, which became his focus. When he finally married at age 37, John was 18 years older than Mary Ann. This family is found in subdivision 26, Bradley, Tennessee in the 1850 census. Mack was the baby of the family.  In 1850, there were 5 brothers and 4 sisters still living with their parents.  Three children had already left home.

In 1851, John and Mary Ann moved the family. Some say this was to Union County, Illinois, but I later found Mack in Illinois County, Arkansas. So, I am unsure where exactly that John died on 28 July 1852. 

[The "Knoxville Intelligencer" of 23 Jul 1822 says, "Married on Friday the 12th inst., by Robert Houston, Esq., Col. John McNair and Miss Polly Sheritze." After marriage John and Mary Ann moved from Knox County to the Cherokee Nation (now Bradley Co.). In 1851 they moved to Union County, IL (South end of the state).]

However, I found my Mack McNair in the 1860 census as a 13-year-old son, living with his mother, Mary Ann, age 57, and 3 other siblings. They were living in the Tomahawk section in Searcy County, Arkansas. In 1870, Mack moved to the south of his family home and was working for a wealthy young man, William G Hall. Included in the household was a young child, another laborer (a black man) and a domestic servant (a black female). This appears to be a wealthy district. Mack’s mother, Mary Ann and daughter Hannah Irena, were still living in Tomahawk, Searcy Co., AR, just a few doors down from her son James Claiborn McNair.  In 1880, Mary Ann and her blind daughter, Irena, were still living in Saint Joe, Searcy County, Arkansas.

Mack married Sarah Henderson on 1 Oct 1873, and by 1880, they had also settled in Saint Joe. He was a laborer and had been unemployed for 3 months. His brother James and wife Harriet (Manes) lived next door. James was farming so Mack may have been working for James. My Charles Franklin was 3 years old. Mother Mary Ann and daughter Irena are living only a short distance away. Next door to them is a family of Hendersons. Eventually, brother James and his wife Harriet moved to Pleasant Hill, Missouri, and mother Mary Ann went with them where she passed away on 9 May 1894.

[After John’s death, Mack’s mother, Mary Ann, moved to Pleasant Hill, Missouri, to live with son James Claiborn McNair. This information was recorded in Reminiscent History Of The Ozark Region Published 1894 by Goodspeed Publishers  found on http://www.accessgenealogy.com/arkansas/reminiscent-history-of-the-ozark-region.htm ]

Mack and Sarah eventually owned a 165-acre farm Searcy Co, Arkansas, at the side of Boston Mountain, part of the Ozark mountain range. He cultivated 70 acres of this farm. Mack and Sarah had 12 children.

Sometime between 1895 and 1898, Mack and Sarah moved to Eddy, McLennan Co, Texas (near Waco) where their last child, Eula Franes was born. In 1900, they were living in Blevins, Falls Co., Texas. They now had a large family, including my great grandfather, Charles Franklin McNair, age 22.

They eventually moved to Jones County, Texas, where they lived in the country near Bunker Hill School about 3 miles from Leuders. Mack received his mail at Avoca, Rt. 3. He owned a 160-acre farm which offered poor living conditions. Years later around 1960, this family farm and mineral rights were sold and now Jones County yields many oil fields.  

Mack had a colorful personality. He was bald headed and had a beard. He often claimed that he walked on his head to keep the devil from tracking him and that was the reason why he was bald. He enjoyed visits from the grandchildren so much that if he awoke before the children, he would drip cold water on their faces.

Mack and Sarah lived in the Lueders community for the rest of their lives and were buried in Bethel Cemetery near Avoca, Texas. Mack died 15 May 1933.  Mother and I visited their gravesite in 1995. Their daughter Lee Ollie was buried next to them.

 

 

 

Friday, May 8, 2026

Mack McNair Family Group Sheet

Family Group Sheet for Mack Manilus McNair

 

Mack Manilus McNair

                b. 10 Apr 1847 in probably Bradley County, Tennessee

                d. 15 May 1933 in Lueders, Jones, Texas

                Burial: 16 May 1933 in Funston, Jones County, Texas.

Mack and Sarah are buried in Bethel Cemetery. Mother and I visited there in 1995. Lee Ollie was buried with them.

 

Father: John (Jack) McNair

Mother: Mary Ann Polly Sherertz

 

Spouse: Sarah Merinda Henderson

Marriage: 1 Oct 1873

 

Sarah Henderson

                b. 10 Jun 1853 in McMinnville, Warren County, Tennessee

                d. 6 Sep 1922 in Nugent, Jones County, Texas

                Burial: Funston, Jones County, Texas

                Father: James T. ?? Henderson

                Mother: Susan Sewell

                 

Children:

1)      Martha Jane McNair

                                b. 22 Nov 1874 Searcy County, Arkansas

                                d.13 Dec 1875 in Searcy County, Arkansas

                                 Martha died in infancy of bowel trouble.

 

2)       John Boyd McNair

                                Birth: 28 Feb 1876 in Saint Joe, Searcy County, Arkansas

                                Death: 01 Sep 1961 in Corpus Christi, Nueces County, Texas

                                Burial: Robstown, Nueces County, Texas

                                Spouse: Dora Franklin Jackson

                                Marriage: 26 Jun 1901 in McLennan, Texas

 

3)      Charles Franklin McNair

                Birth: 05 Feb 1878 in Saint Jo Arkansas

                Marriage: 07 Jun 1903 in Moody, McLennan County, Texas

                Bethel Baptist Chapel

                Death: 09 Dec 1968 in Vernon, Wilbarger, Texas

                Burial:10 Dec 1968 in Vernon, Wilbarger Memorial Park.

                Spouse: Ella Vermell King

 

4)      Thomas William McNair

                                Birth: 18 Mar 1880 in Searcy County, Arkansas

                                Marriage: 22 Oct 1905 in McLennan, Texas

                                Death: 06 Oct 1945 in McLennan County, Texas

                                 Spouse: Kate Ellen Fitzpatrick

 

5)      Mary Elizabeth McNair

                                Birth: 28 Jan 1882 in Searcy County, Arkansas

                                Marriage: 30 Jan 1902

                                Death: 07 Dec 1945 in Leuders, Texas (rural)

                                Burial: Lueders, Jones County,

                                Spouse: George Barnes Gray

 

6)      Susan Artamiss McNair

                                Birth: 10 Jan 1884 in Searcy County, Arkansas

                                Marriage:06 Oct 1901

                                Death:22 Sep 1978 in Belton, Bell, Texas

                                Burial: Troy, Bell County, Texas

                                Spouse: Charles Erastus Johnson

 

7)      Alfred Minlus McNair

                                Birth: 12 Apr 1886 in Searcy County, Arkansas

                                Marriage :06 Nov 1915

                                Death: 22 Feb 1965 in El Paso, Texas

                                Burial: Funston, Jones County, Texas

                                Spouse: Della Brown

 

8)      Lessie Trena McNair

                                Birth:01 Aug 1888 in Searcy, Arkansas

                                Marriage:06 Jul 1907 in McLennan, Texas

                                Death:16 May 1977 in Hamlin, Jones, Texas; Age: 88

                                Burial:18 May 1977 in Hamlin, Jones County, Texas

                                Resided for a while in Holiday Lodge Nursing Home. Buried in Hamlin                                                                memorial Gardens.

                                Spouse: Ervin H Huff

 

9)      Lee Ollie McNair

                                Birth:06 Jul 1893 in Searcy County, Arkansas

                                Death:17 Aug 1934 in Texas

 

10)  Thelma Iowa McNair

                                Birth:25 Feb 1895 in Arkansas

                                Marriage:26 Oct 1917 in Shackelford, Texas

                                Death:07 Jul 1979 in Stamford, Jones, Texas, USA; Age at Death: 84

                                Burial:09 Jul 1979 in Funston, Jones County, Texas

                                Buried in Bethel Cemetery.

                                Informant on death certificate was I.W.McNair, a nephew.

                                Spouse: Thomas Newel Graham

 

11)  Sarah Alice McNair

                                Birth:08 Jan 1896

                                Death:06 Jun 1969

 

12)  Eula Frances McNair

                                Birth:22 Sep 1898 in Eddy, McLennan, Texas

                                Death:17 Feb 1954 in Stamford, Jones, Texas

                                Eula never married and was living with her sister Thelma, at the end of her life. 

                                She died from uterine cancer buried on 18 Feb 1954 in Bethel Cemetery.

                                Burial: Funston, Jones County, Texas

 







Tuesday, May 5, 2026

Mack McNair Sources

Source Citations: Mack Manilus McNair 

 1850 United States Federal Census; Census Place: Subdivision 26, Bradley, Tennessee; Roll: 871; Page: 241a 

 1860 United States Federal Census; Census Place: Tomahawk, Searcy, Arkansas; Page: 895; Family History Library Film: 803050

 McNair, McNear, and McNeir Genealogies; supplement 1928, compiled by James Birtley McNair: Chicago, 1929, p. 300. (I have this hardcopy book in my inventory.) 

 1870 United States Federal Census: Illinois Township, Pope Co., Arkansas; Roll: M593_61; Page: 389A; Family History Library Film: 545560 

 1880 United States Federal Census: Saint Joe, Searcy, Arkansas; Roll: 56; Page: 479C; Enumeration District: 175 

 1920 United States Federal Census, Census Place: Justice Precinct 7, Jones, Texas; Roll: T625_1824; Page: 1B; Enumeration District: 138 

 1930 United States Federal Census, Census Place: Precinct 7, Jones, Texas; Page: 11B; Enumeration District: 0017; FHL microfilm: 2342099 

 Texas, Death Certificates, 1903-1982 [database on-line]. Provo, UT, USA: Ancestry.com Operations, Inc., 2013. Original data: Texas Department of State Health Services. Texas Death Certificates, 1903–1982. Austin, Texas, USA. 

 Find A Grave. Find A Grave. http://www.findagrave.com/cgi-bin/fg.cgi. 

 Social Security Applications and Claims, 1936-2007. Claim made by Lessie Trena Rawlins 

 “Daniel’s Descendants”, http://freepages.rootsweb.com/~mcnair/genealogy/ by Bryan Douglas McNair, 345 RiverFern Ave. #2432, Garland,Texas 75040, bmc656@yahoo.com 

 Personal Interviews: Carolita Jones Quillin, Ova McNair Kerr: early 1990s. 

 1894 Story of McNair Family Reminiscent History Of The Ozark Region Published 1894 by Goodspeed Publishers

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