Friday, June 19, 2026

Sensical Approach to Cultural War

 

Sensical Approach to Cultural War
Stop Moaning

“This country was born in turmoil and conflict.”

 I’ve done a lot of soul searching since the pandemic when the world seemed to be turned upside down. In May 2021, my own neighborhood was invaded The Black Lives Matter organization. It was disturbing and thought provoking. I spent time wondering what I have missed and how maybe my own perspective is distorted. Then I found an article written from an interview with Annette Gordon-Reed. Annette is a Pulitzer Prize winning writer. This article was about her book The Hemingses of Monticello: An American Family.  I think she covers it quite nicely.

As a child Annette loved to read, more specifically biographies. She read about George Washington Carver, George Washinton, Thomas Jefferson, Dolley Madison, etc. Jefferson was the most interesting to her because he loved to read, and he wrote the Declaration of Independence…but he was a slave owner. Sally Hemings’ children were fathered by Jefferson. Annette says that though they were enslaved people, bound by the institution of slavery, they were also mothers, fathers, sisters, aunts, friends, etc. They had different personalities, different ways of going through the world. Their opportunities were severely circumscribed because of slavery but she wants to view them as individual human beings.

She understands why people would not want to name something after Jefferson, but “we have to grapple with him, because he embodies the contradictions of this country, the good things and the bad things.” Members of the founding generation of our nation must be a part of the conversation. The statues and things named for them present an opportunity to talk about the way this country was born. Annette believes that we can’t take out those parts of history because they are less favorable, yet they make us who we are today.

Annette is optimistic about the young people today because they have grown up thinking there is a problem, and it’s a problem we must deal with. She believes that some don’t want to talk about history, and she thinks young people are resisting that. She plans to write more books about the Black progress that has been made.

In 1964, Annette Gordon-Reed was a child growing up in Conroe, Texas. She was part of the generation, just as I was, that lived during the integration of schools. It was intense because it was a big deal for a Black child to go to a white school. We lived during a time where we had separate waiting rooms at the doctor’s office and Blacks were seated in the balcony at theaters. We were part of breaking those barriers.

Today, we name things also for ALL people who have made a difference in communities, state, and nation. There are no barriers. The walls have crumbled, and we must be aware how much we have grown as a nation. A new school in Conroe was recently named Annette Gordon-Reed Elementary School. Let’s celebrate our successes and stop groaning about the history which led us to this place today.


Wednesday, May 20, 2026

Our Baby Brother

 TROY ROBERT LONG
1961 - 2019


We lost our baby brother on 20 May 2019. Oh, how my heart hurts for what could have been. We had recently been reunited with him and were looking so forward to him coming to join us on the mountain on May 28 when his son Isaac got out of school. (we had fallen out of his favor when we purchased the mountain property in 2008) It was going to be the start of what I had dreamed about! I loved Troy as the little brother that I never had. He was one of the two people that I always thought would be there for me. That wasn't in God's plans. 

We had just gotten to the mountains on May 15, had settled in when a heavy snow began to fall. We had gone out to play in the snow when we got a call from his son Michael that Troy had been found deceased in his home, earlier that morning. Nightmares are created from this type of call. We were frantic to make arrangements to get off the mountain and head back home, and we were trying to support Michael long distance. The snow had begun to melt, but we only had a window of time to get out on the road. More snow was on the way. I think we were packed and ready to leave by 1 pm. Our journey out was a bit dicey, but we got off the mountain. What lay ahead of us was to be the heaviest snowfall that Colorado had seen that late in the year since 1898. Another nightmare. We altered our route and made it home safely, but there were days and weeks of mourning the loss of one of my soulmates. He guarded and protected me through many occasions, and I miss him just as much or more today as I did on the day we lost him.

Friday, May 15, 2026

THIS Baby Girl



 My niece, part of my heart and soul, was born on 15 May 1981. We spent many hours together, probably more than she can even remember. She was a huge part of my life from the day she was born. I cherish every moment that we were afforded together. Thank you, Lord, for bringing her into my life and I pray that your divine guidance will shine a light on her path forward.

Tuesday, May 5, 2026

Mack McNair Sources

Source Citations: Mack Manilus McNair 

 1850 United States Federal Census; Census Place: Subdivision 26, Bradley, Tennessee; Roll: 871; Page: 241a 

 1860 United States Federal Census; Census Place: Tomahawk, Searcy, Arkansas; Page: 895; Family History Library Film: 803050

 McNair, McNear, and McNeir Genealogies; supplement 1928, compiled by James Birtley McNair: Chicago, 1929, p. 300. (I have this hardcopy book in my inventory.) 

 1870 United States Federal Census: Illinois Township, Pope Co., Arkansas; Roll: M593_61; Page: 389A; Family History Library Film: 545560 

 1880 United States Federal Census: Saint Joe, Searcy, Arkansas; Roll: 56; Page: 479C; Enumeration District: 175 

 1920 United States Federal Census, Census Place: Justice Precinct 7, Jones, Texas; Roll: T625_1824; Page: 1B; Enumeration District: 138 

 1930 United States Federal Census, Census Place: Precinct 7, Jones, Texas; Page: 11B; Enumeration District: 0017; FHL microfilm: 2342099 

 Texas, Death Certificates, 1903-1982 [database on-line]. Provo, UT, USA: Ancestry.com Operations, Inc., 2013. Original data: Texas Department of State Health Services. Texas Death Certificates, 1903–1982. Austin, Texas, USA. 

 Find A Grave. Find A Grave. http://www.findagrave.com/cgi-bin/fg.cgi. 

 Social Security Applications and Claims, 1936-2007. Claim made by Lessie Trena Rawlins 

 “Daniel’s Descendants”, http://freepages.rootsweb.com/~mcnair/genealogy/ by Bryan Douglas McNair, 345 RiverFern Ave. #2432, Garland,Texas 75040, bmc656@yahoo.com 

 Personal Interviews: Carolita Jones Quillin, Ova McNair Kerr: early 1990s. 

 1894 Story of McNair Family Reminiscent History Of The Ozark Region Published 1894 by Goodspeed Publishers

Monday, May 4, 2026

Mack Manilus McNair Family Group Sheet

                                                                 

    


Mack Manilus McNair **

Family Group Sheet for Mack Manilus McNair **



Spouse:


Mack Manilus McNair **


Birth:

10 Apr 1847 in probably Bradley County, Tennessee


Marriage:

01 Oct 1873


Death:


15 May 1933 in Lueders, Jones, Texas, USA


Burial:


16 May 1933 in Funston, Jones County, Texas, USA; Mack and Sarah are buried in Bethel Cemetery. Mother and I visited there in 1995. Lee Ollie was buried with them.


Father:


John (Jack) McNair **


Mother: 

Mary Ann Polly Sherertz **



Spouse:


Sarah Merinda Henderson **



Birth:

10 Jun 1853 in McMinnville, Warren County, Tennessee, USA


Death:


06 Sep 1922 in Nugent, Jones County, Texas, USA


Burial:


Funston, Jones County, Texas, USA



Father:


??James T. ?? Henderson **


Mother: Susan Sewell 



Children:



1


Name:


Martha Jane McNair


Birth:


22 Nov 1874 in Searcy County, Arkansas, USA; Martha died in infancy of bowel trouble.


Death:


13 Dec 1875 in Searcy County, Arkansas, USA




2


Name:


John Boyd Mc Nair


Birth:


28 Feb 1876 in Saint Joe, Searcy County, Arkansas, USA


Marriage:


26 Jun 1901 in McLennan, Texas, United States


Death:


01 Sep 1961 in Corpus Christi, Nueces County, Texas, USA


Burial:


Robstown, Nueces County, Texas, USA


Spouse:


Dora Franklin Jackson



3


Name:


Charles Franklin McNair **


Birth:


05 Feb 1878 in Saint Jo Arkansas


Marriage:


07 Jun 1903 in Moody, McLennan County, Texas, USA; Bethel Baptist Chapel


Death:


09 Dec 1968 in Vernon, Wilbarger, Texas, USA


Burial:


10 Dec 1968 in Vernon, Wilbarger County, Texas, USA; Frank was buried in Wilbarger Memorial Park.


Spouse:


Ella Vermell King **🚩



4


Name:


Thomas William McNair


Birth:


18 Mar 1880 in Searcy County, Arkansas, USA


Marriage:


22 Oct 1905 in McLennan, Texas, United States


Death:


06 Oct 1945 in McLennan County, Texas, USA


Spouse:


Kate Ellen Fitzpatrick



5


Name:


Mary Elizabeth McNair


Birth:


28 Jan 1882 in Searcy County, Arkansas, USA


Marriage:


30 Jan 1902


Death:


07 Dec 1945 in Leuders, Texas (rural)


Burial:


Lueders, Jones County, Texas, United States of America


Spouse:


George Barnes Gray


6

Name:

Susan Artamiss McNair

Birth:

10 Jan 1884 in Searcy County, Arkansas, USA

Marriage:

06 Oct 1901

Death:

22 Sep 1978 in Belton, Bell, Texas, United States of America; Age: 94

Burial:

Troy, Bell County, Texas, USA

F

Spouse:

Charles Erastus Johnson

7

Name:

Alfred Minlus McNair

Birth:

12 Apr 1886 in Searcy County, Arkansas, USA

Marriage:

06 Nov 1915

Death:

22 Feb 1965 in El Paso, Texas, United States

Burial:

Funston, Jones County, Texas, USA


Spouse:

Della Brown

8

Name:

Lessie Trena McNair

Birth:

01 Aug 1888 in Searcy, Arkansas

Marriage:

06 Jul 1907 in McLennan, Texas, USA

Death:

16 May 1977 in Hamlin, Jones, Texas, USA; Age: 88

Burial:

18 May 1977 in Hamlin, Jones County, Texas, USA; Resided for awhile in Holiday Lodge Nursing Home. Buried in Hamlin memorial Gardens.

Spouse:

Ervin H Huff

9

Name:

Lee Ollie McNair

Birth:

06 Jul 1893 in Searcy County, Arkansas, USA

Death:

17 Aug 1934 in Texas, United States


10

Name:

Thelma Iowa McNair

Birth:

25 Feb 1895 in Arkansas, USA

Marriage:

26 Oct 1917 in Shackelford, Texas, USA

Death:

07 Jul 1979 in Stamford, Jones, Texas, USA; Age at Death: 84

Burial:

09 Jul 1979 in Funston, Jones County, Texas, USA; Buried in Bethel Cemetery. Informant on death certificate was I.W.McNair, a nephew.


Spouse:

Thomas Newel Graham

11

Name:

Sarah Alice McNair

Birth:

08 Jan 1896

Death:

06 Jun 1969


12

Name:

Eula Frances McNair

Birth:

22 Sep 1898 in Eddy, McLennan, Texas, USA

Death:

17 Feb 1954 in Stamford, Jones, Texas, USA; Eula never married and was living with her sister, Thelma, at the end of her life. She died from uterine cancer and was buried on 18 Feb 1954 in Bethel Cemetery.

Burial:

Funston, Jones County, Texas, United States of America


Notes:

Martha Jane McNair

Martha died in infancy of bowel trouble.







































































































 

 

 

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