Sagebrush Sven added these words of wisdom
Buffalo Bulletin: A4, Oct 1, 2026 buffalobulletin.com
Digging into our family history creates deep connections. Genealogy is about finding our roots. As we research our family tree, we realize how our lives are intertwined with the history of our great nation. My family history includes the Quillin family, the Ewing family, the McNair family, the Jones family, the Bridges family, the King family and the Hulsey family. It is an honor to share their family stories. Search each family name by clicking the labels on the bottom right side.
My husband and I spend summers in Buffalo, Wyoming, the old hometown of Derek's family. Buffalo has a wonderful small-town newspaper. The following was taken from "Sagebrush Sven", a weekly column that covers the topics of the bench sitters, a group that gets together for coffee. It is like a humorous take on information about different things that have happened to locals the previous week.
This particular column drew on my heartstrings, as it could certainly be written about my own family and community. It was something the bench sitters wanted Sven to repeat... an essay from 25 years ago, author unknown. Yet, it could have been written by any of the 'gray' hairs sitting at the table.
"Friends"
"I grew up in the '40s and '50s with practical parents. A mother, God love her, who washed aluminum foil after she cooked in it, then reused it. She was the original recycle queen, before they had a name for it. We had a father who was happier getting old shoes fixed than buying new ones. Their marriage was good; their dreams focused. It was the time for fixing things... a curtain rod, the kitchen radio, screen door, the over door, the hem in a dress. It was a way of life, and sometimes it made me crazy. All the fixing and renewing....I wanted just once to be wasteful. Waste meant affluence. Throwing things way meant you knew there'd always be more.
But then my mother died, and on that clear summer's night, in the warmth of the hospital room, I was struck with the pain of learning that sometimes there isn't any more. Sometimes, what we care about most gets all used up and goes away...never to return. So...while we have it...it's best we love it...and care for it...and fix it when it's broken...and heal it when it's sick.
This is true...for marriage...and old cars...and children with bad report cards...and dogs with bad hips...and aging parents...and grandparents. We keep them because they are worth it.There are just some things that make life important, like people we know who are special...and so, we keep them close! Good friends are like stars...you don't always see them, but you know they are always there."
"Sagebrush Sven," Buffalo Bulletin: p. A4, Oct 1, 2026. buffalobulletin.com
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I found an article on FB on September 23, 2026. It struck a chord with me, as I have recently been deeply concerned about a phone call I received from someone I love deeply. I was stunned that this person could scream at me with such hatred.... really for no reason other than I have decided that, at my age, I have to square away my personal affairs. I must take care of business that affects me and my personal life, in the hopes that others can see that THIS is what is needed. It is done with no malicious reasons, only that is it the right thing to do at my stage of life.
Jesus didn't argue with Judas. Jesus knew exactly who Judas was, and He still chose love. He knew betrayal was coming. He knew what Judas would do. Yet He didn't fill His heart with bitterness.
Lesson is... you don't have to defend yourself. You don't have to expose every person who has wronged you. Sometimes, you can simply step back and let time reveal what needs to be revealed. And when it does, guard your heart. You can recognize someone's true colors without becoming bitter. You can set boundaries and still forgive. You can walk away and still love like Jesus.
THEIR CHARACTER IS THEIRS TO CARRY. YOUR HEART IS YOURS TO GUARD.
VALUABLE OLD FAMILY BIBLE
Information given from an OLD family Bible. They are connected
to the Price family through our James McNair and his daughter, Hannah. Hannah was the sister to our John "Jack" McNair.
This Baptismal Record was found in the Augusta Stone Church records in Virginia.
Daniel McNear baptized a child named James.
May not be a complete list, but it is what I had from 1993.
His will was written with his own hand January 5, 1817, and
proved at the July term of the Knox Co. Court, 1818. The will in full is
recorded in Knox Co. Estate Book, Vol. 2, pages 351 and 352. His wife's will
was written March 23, 1817, and was proved at the same session of the Court.
The following is included in Gerry McNair Crow's notes: "Tenn. Census
taken from NC land grants 1787-1791, No. of Grant 2442, James McNair, 200 acres
1790 on the south side of Holstein (River) opposite the mouth of German
Creek." James' last will and testament is recorded in "Leaves From
The Family Tree" by Penelope Johnson Allen and is as follows: "In the
name of God., Amen, I, James McNair of the County of Knox, State of Tennessee,
being in a low state of health, but of sound memory, do make this my Last Will
and Testament. First I wish all my just debts and funeral charges to be paid
from my moveable property and my daughter Myre to have a horse worth 100
dollars or the money. "To my true and well beloved wife, Martha, I give
and bequeath my dwelling house as it stands with all and every part of
furniture, the kitchen, smoke house, crib and Garden and the half of all kind of
stock and farm tools, also old Cipeo, Rhoda and her child Cubit, all of which
is to be at her disposal in her life time or at her death--I do will that my
land at the death of my wife be sold to the highest bidder and also my boys,
Bob and Austin, and from the sale, my son John is to have and receive one half
of the purchase money, my son James on third, my son David and my daughters
Polly, Hannah, Betsy and Myre shall have equal shares of the other third part.
"My son John is to have one half of the stock and all untensils with his
mother and have full care of her. He has Bob and Austin as assistantsand the
whole plantation to cultivate for which he, the said John, is to let her have a
full third part of all produce. "I choose my true and trusted friends
Asahel Chapman and my son John as my executors to see that my last will and
testament be carefully executed. All former will being made void and of no
effect. This I say, is my last will and testament wrote with my own hand and
sealed with my seal this 5th day of January in the year of our Lord one
thousand eight hundred and seventeen. "Signed Jas. M'Nair, in the presence
of Ro Armstrong, Fras. Bounds."
Taking the Bad with the Good
The McNair line was the first line that I attempted to document back into the 1700's in order to gain admission to Daughters of the American Revolution. Back in the 1980's and 1990's, any genealogical work had to be done the old-fashioned way: pounding the pavement, going to cemeteries and courthouses, writing letters, waiting by the mail and making payments by checks in order for someone else to xerox copies in the archives of their libraries. I did just that for James McNair. I've got ALL the documentation for James under his name but never filed for DAR....yet. The registrar for Daughters of the American Revolution of the Thankful Hubbard chapter was helping me find legitimate sources, and we hit a wall with James. BUT she uncovered Conrad Sherertz's service. Conrad was Mary Ann's father. (Mary Ann was the wife of John McNair, son of James). Being that so much time had been spent, I followed that line and gained my DAR membership being the first person to ever document Conrad Sheretz. It was quite an honor.
With that said, I had FRIED myself with all the research done and I put genealogy away for about 3 years. When I picked it up again, I DID follow through with gathering all the documents for James McNair's service in the Revolution.
I had received 4 envelopes of copies of legal pages from the Knox County, TN courthouse. The documents included land deeds, their witnessing of other people’s land deeds, having their lands processioned, etc. But then there was one document that caught my eye…. a bastardy case filed against John. This would have been shortly before his marriage to Mary Ann Sherertz. The woman accusing him of “having begotten the said child” could not read or write. She had to sign the document with an X. She gave birth to this child on 27 May 1821. It appears that in Oct 1821, John came to court again and made payment to Mabel Burnett. I would have never known this had it not been one of the court documents sent to me.
Here's the translation as best as I could read the documents:
17 SEPTEMBER 1821
McNair Quote
As long as marriages are recorded, births registered, gravestones used, and obituaries written there is value to genealogy. As long as heredity is recognized, family merit encouraged, and patriotism cherished genealogy is imperative.
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James Birtley McNair 1929
James Birtley McNair compiled the McNair History into several volumes. Most all of them can be found on Family Search (Mormon website) through their book library and can be viewed by the public. I purchased ALL of the volumes but only found our family in the McNair, McNear, and McNeir Genealogies, supplement 1928, slide #318, p 299.
Spies to the CREEK NATION
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