Thursday, February 29, 2024

Framing My World - 5

 I Think Things Over

I don’t think fast on my feet, but I’m confident in my decision making process.

I absorb things, sometimes for quite a while, until eventually I have a clear vision of the situation. I can see where I’m to blame and where the blame is to be laid elsewhere. I don’t rush to conclusions, oftentimes analyzing my own actions, trying to see what I did to make things worse. Mother always said good things come my way because I don’t react quickly, yet I tend to worry.

I know I’m not always right. There’s more than one way to skin a cat.

I find it difficult to use my words to justify my thinking or defend my position, sometimes lack the confidence to proceed independently, many times leaving things unsaid which is my way of letting God take control.

Wednesday, February 28, 2024

Framing My World - 4

 I Follow Rules

I value tradition and laws and have a well-defined set of standards and beliefs.

I avoid confrontations, usually acquiescing to others.

I go along to get along and try to cooperate not stepping on other people’s toes.

I’m practical like my mother, stay within my boundaries and within my means.

I don’t like to make mistakes, do it right the first time.

When someone gives instructions, I do what they say, I try not to deviate. I’m a pleaser.

I don’t commit to something unless I can carry it out. If I commit, I’m dedicated.

I believe that God’s Laws are the ultimate rules.

Tuesday, February 27, 2024

Framing My World - 3

 Kind Hearted But Not a Push Over / Family Experiences

I’m good natured. I don’t blow up easily. I carry it on my shoulders until too much pushes me to consider myself done. Exception to that is family. I yield to family, hoping for stronger relationships now that I’m older. Family has always been important to me. I thought we were always close. Maybe I lived in a fairy tale. Without children, I enjoy being a part of their activities. I’m saddened now as adults how we have grown apart.

Though I may seem like a push-over because I don’t fight back, I have an inner strength from absorbing life’s lessons and taking them to heart. I was the baby of the family, making some think I was spoiled, I was more the product of a family that fell apart, living in a situation after my siblings left that only I witnessed. My parents became embroiled in alcohol and a troubled relationship. At that point in their lives, they chose not to battle me because I was an easy child, learning from other’s mistakes. I didn’t want to create more conflict. I used my experiences to grow wiser and stronger. I overcame a lot of hurt, trying not to inflict pain on others which is why I took the back seat. This gave me a good sense of reality, making me vigilant, watching things from a distance and seeing through disguises. A comfort in all of that was the fact that I was still surrounded by agape love. I never felt that I was the problem. I knew how much each parent loved me. It was never directed at me.

One thing that impacted my self-image was something that Daddy often said in his conversations with other people when I was present. Though he didn’t intend to be hurtful, over time it became that way for me. He was usually referencing someone’s ignorance.  He would say, “so and so (whoever it was) doesn’t know any more about that than… (look around, point at me) than Nancy does.” I shouldered it, wasn’t hurt, was fully aware that I was young with no knowledge of that situation…. but the older I got, the more I resented that statement.  It took me a long time to realize that this may be why I feel inferior to others, less deserving. But it may also be why I look out for my own interest.  I’m kindhearted, but not a push over.

Monday, February 26, 2024

Framing My World - 2

 Being A Teacher

I was passionate about teaching but being a perfectionist had its drawback in a classroom situation…but it had a plus side, as well. I sometimes told my students, “There’s one chief and many Indians in here.” I also know that you can please some of the people sometimes, but you can never please everyone all the time. I was a conservative teacher and class management was high on the list. I’m sure it was because of my own learning style.  I can’t function in chaos with lots of distractions, and providing that for my students was imperative for me.  Therefore, I was a friend for the parents who liked discipline and a foe to students who enjoyed chaos. There were days when I could handle situations with humor, but more often than not, I chose to not let my guard down, probably being perceived as biased and cold to my students, though in my heart I felt lots of compassion to do the right thing as their teacher.  I enjoyed teaching the whole child in the form of large projects that were multi-faceted in achieving skills. It was fun when we were not teaching to a test. The students in Eanes were very capable of learning skills this way. I started out in a low socio-economic neighborhood with difficult and challenging students, Pearce Middle School in North East Austin. A student stabbed a substitute in the hand in the cafeteria that year. That was enough for me.  Our move to Red Oak enlightened me as a teacher and was a good move for me. We had regular students from a small rural area near Dallas.  I gained experience and confidence, earning the award of “Teacher of the Year.” We moved back to Austin and settled into the Eanes district. I often told Derek that I would have never been able to stay in the teaching profession if I had not had students and parents who were much like myself and motivated to learn.

Sunday, February 25, 2024

Framing My World - 1

My Viewpoint

A viewpoint is all in perspective to the experiences that you have had, the people who have influenced you, the paths that God has led you down. We frame our world by those experiences, and they mold us into who we become and how we develop our belief systems. I find it intriguing and often wish that I could go into someone's mind and see life through their lens. I try to live life in my lane, and with God's help, I try to do what is right and wholesome and helpful to myself and others.



Being a wife

As a wife, I have loved deeply the one that I chose to spend my life with. There have been no regrets. He taught me much about life with his genuine love for others and his sense of right and wrong. Two lessons I learned from him early in our marriage come to mind. 1) “Don’t remind me of my mistakes, I have not forgotten them”….and 2) After we make a decision, we don’t look back and say ‘what if’ we had done something differently.  We move forward and do the most we can to be happy and grateful.  Mother often said that we have a marriage made in heaven. Wherever you find one of us, the other is not far away. I can be happy anywhere as long as he is there, too. We are soul mates; we lift one another up with respect. We are faithful, honest and considerate of each other. We communicate our thoughts and feelings well and we share everything. Derek understands my sensitivity.  I am so very thankful for his gracious spirit. He reminds me of my mother, never placing himself first. He has a great sense of what is right or wrong. There is no gray area.

I spent much time alone as a coach’s wife. It was tough at first for every weekend to be taken up with his work. I fought hard not to be jealous of his time spent with his job or hurt at the extra time he had to spend as a coach. Once I adjusted (probably more because I grew up)…I threw myself into my job as a teacher and embraced all that time alone, using it as prep time….countless hours planning lessons and grading writing assignments. I grew accustomed to being alone and operating around my own timeline without interruption. So in retirement, that had to play itself out in reverse, growing accustomed to having someone around. But, what a blessing to spend each waking moment with my best friend, loving and sharing all of what is good and all of what is bad.

Saturday, February 24, 2024

Life in a Nutshell - 4

 Adult

Met the man of my dreams at Baylor, married in 1978 and began our life together in Austin.
Camp counselor/Camp Fire - first year in Austin during the summer, looking for a place to fit in.
Pearce M.S./Yearbook sponsor - only stayed one year, it was a rough school
Embraced at Red Oak/Teacher of the Year/UIL coordinator
moved by to Austin
taught in Eanes ISD 1983-2007
Sponsored UIL spelling/NJHS

National Award for Teams That Make a Difference/Spoke at Nation Middle School Conference in St. Louis- this was a great privilege and a huge honor.

During the summers, Derek and I travelled the world/ 23 Countries

Genealogy/DAR

Yellow Lab/Beau/field training achieving Junior Hunter

Head Coach's wife/Friday Night Lights





Friday, February 23, 2024

Life in a Nutshell - 3


College:

 Honor Roll/Dean's List

Started in Speech Therapy

was torn between business and education

switched to Journalism/English major

eventually switched to Education

Pledged sorority Pi Beta Phi, we were originally AO's then went National my Senior Year. This was one of the best sororities on campus.

still loved music/loved to dance

Dance chairman of SING at Baylor







Thursday, February 22, 2024

Life in a Nutshell - 2

 Teenager


Choir - girls choir under a driven choir director. We had the privilege of being selected to travel to Austin to sing in the Rotunda on Texas Independence Day. 

Honor Thespian - participated in the One Act Play and made it to State. Placed 3rd

Drill Team - Sophmore and Junior Years

School Mascot - School wide election

Homecoming Court - Senior Year

Teacher program - Senior year, participated as a teacher's assistance to Mrs. Boger, my 7th grade English teacher. I would travel daily to the Junior High School and she let me help with the students. I loved Mrs. Boger. I also helped her by grading, compiling things in her office, etc.

Newspaper/Yearbook Staff - Junior year we produced the Newspaper, The Roar. Senior Year we produced the yearbook, The Yamparika. I was part of the advertising department, and we left school often to sell ads....and most likely ended up at the donut shop 😂

Loved to dance/hard rock music







Wednesday, February 21, 2024

Life in a Nutshell - 1

 Childhood

Dad was newspaper owner/publisher. He was a community leader.
I grew up around cousins/extended family.
Campfire Girls - started bluebirds in elementary school -it became Horizon Club in high school.
Piano lessons 7 years- I greatly admired my piano teacher, Mrs. Connor.

Dance lessons - briefly learned tap, jazz, a little ballet

childhood best friend/my dog Pal

Community Concerts - Mother and Daddy purchased season tickets to expose us to culture. there was a presentation once a month. 

Santa Rosa Round Up

First Baptist Church - choir/handbells/VBS - I was saved when I was 11. I went with Fancelle and Leonard to pick up Patricia at church camp. It was a service under a tent. I dedicated my life to Christ and professed my faith a few weeks later at the First Baptist Church in Vernon, Texas. I was baptized a month later.


Piano Recitals
1965





Piano Recital

1966



Piano Recital 
1967






Tuesday, February 20, 2024

Contacting Wallace Kelley Ewing

My 2012 Contact with wally1932
Finding his research on Ancestry was tricky.
PLEASE READ MY NOTE AT BOTTOM OF PAGE
 
Wallace K. Ewing
The man who has done so much research for the Ewing Family.
 
Dec 13 2012 sent 1:52  read 1:52 pm
Good morning! You have clearly done much research on the Ewing family. We connect at James Ewing 1721-1891 and Sarah Edwards. If I can be of help on my branch, let me know. I think your research is some that I found online several years ago...and it helped substantiate my line. This is my dad's mother's line. I was not as close to that side of the family, but I think I've done some accurate research. It's always hard to know for sure.
 
His response 2:29 pm
Thanks for your note. Yes, the research goes on, sometimes fruitfully, sometimes not. James's marriage to Sarah Edwards and the existence of a second family was once convincing but is now suspect. There simply isn't enough supporting evidence, and I recently removed the entry from my family tree. Sadly, once an item is posted to the Internet, it seems to live forever. Perhaps you have found some evidence that adds credence to the possibility of James's second family. If so, I hope you will share it. Wally
 
My response 3:04   read at 3:04
Oh no! That is not good news. So...you are saying that the evidence for Sarah Mayes is not there? Hopefully, I'm still good on the Sarah Edwards connection. I try hard to avoid what other people have on Ancestry....some of it is jumbled. But I have followed you on other forums and the research always made sense to me. Yes, it is too bad that once info is on the internet that you can't wipe the slate clean. After you wrote, I was trying to find your Ewing tree to see what alterations you made...no success finding you. Nancy
 
His response 3:55 pm
The argument for James's second family came from correspondence from the 1820s. Anne Toohey wrote a convincing summary of the evidence for a second family in an article dated April 11, 1996(The copy I have is labeled "Draft.") It is titled "James Ewing, Pioneer," which, curiously, is the same title my sister gave to her extensive genealogy written in the mid-1980s. Do you have that article? I imagine there was a James Ewing who married Sarah Edwards, but apparently he was not my family's James Ewing. The fun continues. Wally
 
My response  6:14 pm  read at 6:14 pm
First, I stand in admiration of all those who have done such extensive research. Secondly, you have me scrambling to find my sources this morning. One of my first sources may have been you with a Wally Ewing on Ancestry in April 2002. I put it away for several years. Then I discovered an ahnentafel by a jimmy ewing. To substantiate, I found ewingfamilyassoc with articles by David Benbow. Started seeing the name of Elizabeth Ewing Jamison "Aunt Sallie" and finally landed in a book, I think by S.S. Jamison, chapter XI John Ewing of Carnashanaugh. I could see the confusion with James Ewing of Pocahontas. I felt fairly confident in my research. Right before I ended, I found "Early Ewings of Augusta" where they credited a Dr. Wallace Ewing (which I think may be you) with Ewings: One American Family. I do see up above that a…Nancy Hank Ewing's name with James Ewing-Pioneer. Where should I go to see your "Draft"?
 
December 14, 2012
His response  1:47 pm
You are right on all counts. Nancy Hank Ewing is my sister. She died about 15 years ago with her work unfinished, but her extensive genealogy was close to done, and others wrapped it up for her. As for the Anne Toohey article, I don't know how you would find it. My copy has Library of Congress on the title page. You might try to google it and see if anything comes up. I will be out of town for the next two weeks, but if needed, I could copy the article and mail it to you in January. Are you a member of the Ewing Family Association? If so, you will see that the EFA Journal has been running a series of articles by me about my ancestors, back to James. Part IV will appear in the Feb. issue. I wish you continued good luck as you do more research.
 
My response 3:59 pm   read 3:59 pm
I KNEW it!!! I'm so pleased and honored to make a connection with you. And thank you generously for taking time to respond to me. I DID find the awesome website that appears to be updated from when I last found it. It was so easy to find; I felt silly for asking you..but you headed me in the right direction. I saw your name as chancellor and board chair. I just knew that was you. What admirable work your sister did and that you are carrying on into the future! I appreciate that this research is open for others to see. I began researching in the 80's, at a time when we had to beat the streets, write letters and pay visits to relatives. (I kind of miss that.) But computers are such a wonderful convenience. However, I feel it can be very confusing, especially for those of us who are trying to be accurate. It becomes jumbled by those who leap frog...so to speak. I can't wait to re-read into this wonderful source. I, too, am going to suspend my research until after the holidays, but I will be back in touch with you. No, I am not a member of the Ewing fam assoc. Would love to know what this entails. I'll close now with best regards to you. Merry Christmas! I will be in touch after the first of the year. Thank you, Thank you for reaching out to me.
 
NOTE:
I was so awestruck that I never contacted him again, as I could add no more information to his research. HOWEVER, today 16 Jan 2024, as I prepare more information for my cousin, Patricia Emmons Whitworth, I went WAY back to my correspondence with wally1932 on Ancestry and I found his skeleton tree. It was in the margin of his correspondence. He downloaded a backup tree on Family Tree Maker. He had 3 downloads. I found the one with the most people, and lo and behold, Wallace Ewing has added my whole branch to this tree… all the way down to Daddy, Truman Bryan Quillin, Sr. I’m amazed and HONORED!

Monday, February 19, 2024

Most Trusted Ewing Source

Wallace Kelly Ewing - Credentials
 
I have followed Wallace “Wally” for a long time. I trust the research he has done because of his credentials and his research in conjunction with others. He has written published books. I refer to him as Wally because that is his incognito signature on Ancestry.
 
Personal story: After years of following his research, I found him on Ancestry. I couldn’t believe that he had a tree. His tree offers very little information. One would not know how knowledgeable he is in family history. SO….I messaged him on Ancestry, and lo and behold, he rapidly answered. (See my copy of the correspondence on My 2012 Contact with wally1932.)

 https://www.genealogycenter.info/search_ewingoneamerican.php


Wallace wrote a complete history of his life on the above website.
 
Wallace K. Ewing, Ph.D. served on the Board of Directors of the Ewing Family Association 2016. He was a former Chancellor and Board Chair 2012.
 
Wallace K. 'Wally' Ewing pre-college education was in schools in Grand Haven and Chicago. He attended the University of Wisconsin in Madison and received his bachelor and master degrees from Michigan State University in 1962 and 1964. He completed his doctoral studies in English at the University of Illinois in Champaign in 1971. He has taught at Michigan State University, Iowa State University and the University of Illinois. He was a Fulbright Lecturer in Tehran, Iran; he worked for the Peace Corps in Sierra Leone, West Africa; and he supervised English teachers in Puerto Rican public schools. Wally was Dean of the College at Colby-Sawyer College in New London, New Hampshire. It was upon completion of his work there that he returned to his hometown for good.
 
Upon retirement from the Red Cross in 1995, Wally worked as Curator of Education at the Tri-Cities Historical Museum for two years and subsequently became a volunteer for the Museum. In recognition of his work, the Museum twice named Wally 'Historian of the Year'.
 
In August, 2006, Wally married Betty Jane Pickel Livingston, and, after a two-week honeymoon in England, the newly-married couple flew to Dalian, China, where Wally taught English writing and literature to Juniors at Dongbei University of Finance and Economics.
 
Wally and Jane returned to Grand Haven, where Wally continues to research and write about local history and family genealogy. He has co-authored several books and articles on local history, including Grand Haven Then and Now, released in late 2009, and “Poet in Repose,” an article about the dozen or so summers that the poet Edgar Lee Masters spent in the Grand Haven area. He has also published Our People, Their Stories, bios of local people; Covenant Life Church 1988-2013, a 25-year history; and Substance and Light, 75 Years of the West Michigan Symphony. In 2011, Wally published three more books: Ace in Spoken English, a text book for Chinese university students learning English; Slaves Soldiers Citizens, African Americans in Northwest Ottawa County; and From Home to Trench, the Civil War Letters of Mack and Nan Ewing.

Saturday, February 17, 2024

So Much Fun Reuniting With My Cousin


 To celebrate my cousin’s birthday, her daughters decided to bring her to Austin to visit with Derek and me. I knew beforehand, as it was supposed to be a secret, so I prepared a complete Ewing family history book. It was a very meaningful reunion with a cousin that I had grown up with, and at times she was more like a sister. Two of Patricia’s 3 daughters were able to make the trip. 

Pictured above: Nancy Quillin Long, Tracey Herwig, Patricia Emmons Whitworth, Melanie Harkey 

Sharing the Ewing Family History Book

Friday, February 16, 2024

Ewing / Dillard Connection ?

James Ewing, Jr’s (1758) son John S Ewing(1785)
 
History of Logan County ILL Vol 1 Chapter VI Early settlement

James’s son John S Ewing married Elizabeth Dillard sister to our Ladovsey Dillard.
They were daughters of Osborn Dillard and Nancy Petty
There is much information about John S. and his descendants.
This information was from Nellie Ritchie in 2015. Her line is John S. Ewing.
 
John S. Ewing
Birth 10 April 1785 in Tennessee, USA
Death 3 March 1847 in Lawndale, Logan, Illinois, USA
Marriage to Elizabeth Dillard (sister to our Ladovsey, 2nd wife to James 17
1805 — Age: 20
Elizabeth Dillard
Birth 25 Feb 1791 in North Carolina, USA
Death 11 March 1854 in Lawndale, Logan, Illinois, USA  
 
The following was taken from the History of Logan County Illinois, Published in 1911.
John Ewing was born in 1784 in Eastern Tennessee.  In 1804 he volunteered in the Indian campaign and served during the War of 1812.  He married Elizabeth Dillard, a native of North Carolina.  They lived in White County, Illinois, having come to Illinois while it was yet a territory.  Here, Christopher C. Ewing, his son was born in 1818.  When John Ewing settled in Logan County Illinois in 1829, the Indians were their neighbors and were often troublesome, even quarrelsome.  The Black Hawk war broke out the year following their settlement, and the oldest son enlisted and served till its close.  There were four children in John Ewing’s family besides Christopher C., namely:  Osborn and James, who moved to Kansas; Sidney, who moved to Iowa, and William who moved to Kansas.  Christopher Ewing remained with his parents until his majority.
 
They lived for a while in White County, Illinois, having come to Illinois while it was yet a territory. Here, Christopher C. Ewing, his son, was born in I8I8. When John Ewing and his family settled here,
the Indians were their neighbors and were often troublesome, even quarrelsome.
The Black Hawk War broke out the year following their settlement, and the oldest son en1isted and served to its close. In the summer of 1835, Christopher C. Ewing and his brother hauled a load of wheat to Chicago. They drove an ox team and were two weeks in making the trip and six weeks in completing the journey home. They sold their wheat at seventy-five cents a bushel and loaded their wagon with salt, sugar, coffee and the like. Chicago was then a small village with two or three grocery stores on the north side of the river, a dry goods store and a grocery store on the south side, the river being spanned by a single bridge. Fort Dearborn was located there, to keep the Indians in check. There was a small store at Bloomington and one at Joliet, also a store at Pekin, but when wheat would bring seventy-five to ninety cents in Chicago, it would only bring fifty to sixty cents in Pekin. White supplies were cheaper in Chicago, hence the settlers would often make the longer trip to market.
 
Christopher Ewing remained with his parents until his majority. In 1838 he was elected as captain of militia, withThomas R. Skinner being Colonel of the regiment. In I842 he married Margaret Ann Williams. Two years later he was elected Justice of the Peace which office he retained four years. In 1849 his wife died, leaving two children. He was re-married to Adaline Metcalf, who died in 1877. In 1878 he married Elizabeth Ellis, a native of Ohio. Mr. Ewing died February 9, 1887, leaving a widow and twelve children. In 1849 he was elected as Associate Justice to the County Judge, the County Court, under the law in force at that time, consisting of the County Judge and two Associate Justices. He served until 1853.
 
In a letter to the Old Setttlers' Association of the county, Mr. Ewing (Christopher) said: "I emigrated with my parents from Tazewell County about May 30, 1829. We settled upon the border of Kickapoo, about one mile west of where Lawndale now stands. My father brought with him about 15 head of cattle, besides other stock. "We had to settle on raw land there being little cultivated. We broke sod and planted sod, come about the twenty-fifth of June, on which to winter our stock. The fall was very favorable and the corn matured well. There was any quantity of blue-stem prairie grass, and of this we availed ourselves abundantly. Yet we had to buy corn and haul it four miles. Cooking stoves were rarely seen and a match hadn't yet been thought of. On our long trips to Chicago, we had to keep a supply of flints, steel, tow and punk."
 
Mr. Ewing died February 9, 1887, leaving a widow, Elizabeth Ewing, and twelve children.
 


Thursday, February 15, 2024

S.S. Jamison's Infamous Letters

Forever, I have followed information that was gleaned from the letters that Robert Ewing born 1790 had written to Sarah Sally Jamison (born 1792) about her grandmother, Margaret McMichael Ewing born 1723. With information from someone that far back, it had to be fairly accurate. Then I ran into problems because I realized there was another S.S. Jamison in Burnet Texas. Turns out, it was a respected man of the community named Samuel Sumner Jamison born 1827. He was from the same Elizabeth Ewing, just a different generation later. But I FINALLY figured it out!

Substantiating My Research—S.S. Jamison
 
For some time, I have wondered/doubted the source of S.S. Jamison in BURNET, TEXAS. The dates never matched up. I could go no further in my research until I solved this problem. Previous research was always attributed to information from S.S. Jamison, the Sarah Sally who had received letters from Robert Ewing who had written down all of the family history given to him by Margaret McMichael Ewing just a year before she died. Margaret was the wife of Samuel, son of John Ewing of Carnshanaugh 1648.
 
So how could this be the S.S. Jamison of Burnet, Texas…. see quote below taken from the Story of Clan Ewing on the Ewing Family Association website:
 As was mentioned in Chapter II, the History of Cecil Co., Maryland Ewing family had been given to Col. Wm. A. Ewing of Chicago IL in 1846 by Nathaniel Ewing born 1772, a grandson of the Cecil Co., Md. family. Col. Wm. A. Ewing was also given material on John Ewing by S.S. Jamieson of Burnet, Texas. It was published in Pioneers of Washington Co., Ky. and it matches word for word the information I will quote presently.”
  
S.S.Jamison of Burnet > John Jamison > Elizabeth Ewing > Samuel Ewing > John Ewing 1648
S.S. Jamison (Sarah Sally) 1792 > Elizabeth > Samuel Ewing > John Ewing 1648
Our James Ewing Jr 1758 > Our James (Pocahontas) 1721 > John Ewing 1648
  
Further down there are references given to other cousins in Texas. I do not have a clue who they are as of today.
 
Sometime before May 13,1983, Ono Ruth Klemann of Temple, TX sent me a copy of a letter she had received from Euline Benbow of El Camino Courts, 2102 Highway 21 East, Bryan, TX 77801. All attempts to contact Ms.Benbow have failed. Ms. Benbow's note read:
“I took this from an old letter I found in a trunk that I was blessed to receive. The letters are all 75 to 100 years old. Really thought you might enjoy this and tie some of it in with yours. If so, let me know.”

Wednesday, February 14, 2024

Growing Up In Small Town America Part 6

FATHER DAUGHTER VALENTINES BANQUET 

The father daughter banquet was hosted by the Camp Fire Organization. I loved my Camp Fire group, and as children, we were very close friends. When we reached high school age, Camp Fire became Horizon Club.  Our group was together from probably about age 7 until age 17. Every Valentines Day, the organization held a banquet so that the girls could be escorted by their dads to a dinner. A week or so before the banquet, we would decorate special food boxes with hearts, lace, doilies, cupids, etc. at our regular meeting. The day of the banquet our mothers would pack our box with a home cooked meal. Mother was an expert at frying chicken, so that is what was always in our box. She would include homemade potato salad, bread and some kind of dessert. 

The evening of Valentines Day, the girls hosted their fathers for an evening out together. We began with the pledge, a prayer, singing songs, and there would be a short program before we had our dinner. Our meetings always ended by singing of Wo He Lo. 

I remember when Paula was a senior, my banquet was the same evening, and I could not take Daddy, so I invited Mr. White, an employee for Daddy whom I dearly loved.  He made it the best night ever, treating me with a gentleman's etiquette, starting with picking me up at the house with the proper protocol of coming to the door to ring the bell.

These were special days that I will always cherish. 

I could not locate the old picture of me and Daddy at the banquet, 
but this picture came up of us at the Homecoming game in 1973. 
I was part of the Homecoming Court and Daddy was my escort. 

We would end with singing the Processional Song Wo-He-Lo

PROCESSIONAL: Kahinto Kamya

-- by Helen Gerrish Hughes, copyright by Camp Fire, 1954
We come, we come to our council fire
with measured tread and slow
To light the fire of our desire
To light the fire of Wo-he-lo.
Wo-he-lo, Wo-he-lo.
The little twinkling stars on high
Are whisp'ring nature lore,
While all about us the soft winds sigh
And Great Wokanda watches o'er.
Wo-he-lo, Wo-he-lo.
["Wokanda" means "God" in one of the Amer-Indian languages.]

Tuesday, February 13, 2024

Ladovsey Ewing's Death

 When James Ewing, Jr.'s (1758 - 1810) wife Ladovsey Dillard Ewing (1785-1821) died, there were minor children left that became orphans. These are the Court documents that were filed in order to take care of these young children. 

This information was Recorded by wmjg3 on ANCESTRY   8 March 2011
It substantiates Ladovsey's death and the death of their daughter Nancy.

Tennessee Court Minutes 1820-1822
Tennessee Court Minutes 1824-1831
Guardianship of Alfred, Sally and Malinda Ewing
Evidence of Deaths of
Nancy and Ladovesy Ewing
  
Source:  Smith Co., TN Court Minutes 1820-1822, p.164, 493
 
1821, 18 Feb: William PETTY appointed guardian to Alfred, Sally and Malinda EWING and together with Simon P. HUGHES and William DILLARD, his securities, entered into bond in the sum of $1200, Smith Co., TN.
 
1821, 11 Dec: James RAULSTON appointed guardian to Alfred, Sally and Malinda EWING and together with William JARED and John BALLARD his securities entered into bond in the sum of $1200, Smith Co., TN. The court ordered that the bond executed by William PETTY to said orphans be void and that he be discharged from further accountability as their guardian.
 
 
Source:  Smith County, Tennessee Court Minutes 1824-1831, p.397
 
1825, 29 Aug: David DOUGLAS appointed guardian to Alfred, Sarah and Malinda EWING, who came into court and together with William PETTY and John B. HUGHES entered into Bond.
 
Notes:
 
1.  Nancy Ewing:  Since Nancy was mentioned in her father’s will dated 1810 and was the youngest child, and she is not mentioned in the guardianship papers the assumption is that she must have died before Feb 1821.
 
2.  Ladovesy Ewing:  Guardianship of her minor children would indicate that Ladovesy died prior to 18 Feb 1821, so presumptive date of death would be Feb, 1821.
 
3.  The guardianship of the three youngest surviving children of James Ewing might indicate that William P. Ewing, their older brother had not yet married by 1825.   James and John Ewing were probably in Illinois by now with their own families as evidenced by 1820 census data and Illinois marriage records.
 
Excellent find on Ancestry. This was a tree done by ….wmjg3…..with thorough research and documentation. I have not seen these court minutes.


Monday, February 12, 2024

Super Bowl Sunday- THE GANDER

Difference between Goose and Gander | 8 Scientific Facts (differpedia.com)

 So, it's Monday morning, the day after the Super Bowl. The team that I was cheering for eventually won the game. Yet, there was an incident that is a nagging irritation in the back of my mind. One 'said' player was experiencing frustration for not being in the game. His actions were less than desirable and tainted their win in my eye. 

At the time of the incident, things were falling apart; he ran over and bumped...or rather RAMMED... his coach, nearly knocking him down. The coach did not see it coming and this 'said' player is a huge man garbed in his battle equipment. I was shocked at the exact second that it occurred. Don't get me wrong; I am a coach's wife and we were part of an extremely well-run program with high expectations. This would never be acceptable. Until now? ... nah, never!

"What's good for the goose is good for the gander." This idiom means that a rule or standard that applies in a situation should apply to everyone equally, regardless of gender or characteristics. 

Just because this 'said' player makes millions does not make him any better than any of the other players, pee wee on up, across the nation. He should regulate himself with the same acceptable standards. Yet, he found himself above all the rest with no self-constraints, having a tantrum like a child. He looked a bit like the gander who was taking advantage of the goose. 

So...he fell out of favor with me. I'm expecting him to be a better role model for all those young people watching. He is front and center stage, dating the most popular pop star on the planet, but in no way does this make him better than the rest. I'm waiting for him to learn some humility....it may be a LONG wait. 



Sunday, February 11, 2024

James Ewing Jr 1758 - 1810 Will Transcription

Will of James Ewing

  Transcription of Will     wmjg2 posted on Ancestry 2011

 Smith Co., TN Deed Bk K, p.391-392. Will attached to deed of John Conger to Alfred Ewing, 22 Sep 1810, proved Dec 1810.

1810, 22 Sep: James EWING of Smith Co., TN made his will. Called himself sick and weak of body. Gave to my wife Ladovesy EWING during her chaste widowhood to me, the plantation I now live on and after her widowhood ceases if the children are not of age, my wish and desire is that my Executors shall rent out the farm for the support of Reuben EWING, William EWING, Alfred EWING, Salley EWING, Malinda EWING and Nancy EWING, and when they come of age the land to be sold and equally divided between James EWING, Reuben EWING, William EWING, Alfred EWING, Salley EWING, Malinda EWING and Nancy EWING to them and their heirs forever. My wish and desire is that my Executors shall rent out my plantation where William SEXTON lives and the profits arriving for the support of Reuben EWING, William EWING, Alfred EWING, Salley, Melinda and Nancy EWING and when they come of age, my desire is that the plantation be sold and equally divided between James EWING, Reuben EWING, William EWING, Alfred EWING, Salley EWING, Melinda EWING and Nancy EWING to them and their heirs forever. My wish and desire is that my negro woman, Milley, shall continue a servant of my wife as long as she keeps my young children and treats them well, Reuben EWING, William EWING, Alfred EWING, Sally EWING, Melinda EWING and Nancy EWING and when they get able to maintain themselves, my wish is for the negro woman and increase to be sold to the highest bidder and the profit divided between all of my children herein named to them and their heirs forever. My wish is for all my stock of horses, cows, hogs and my shop tools, household and kitchen furniture, farming utensils to be sold and the profit arising to pay my just debts and legacies given away after this clause of this my wish and the balance if any to be divided equally between all of my children to them and their heirs forever. I give my son John EWING one dollar to him and his heirs forever. I give my daughter Ruthy CELLARS one dollar to her and her heirs forever. I give my daughter Edy EWING ten dollars to her and her heirs forever. My wish and desire is that my executors shall use the profits arising from my lands to support my younger children and give them a liberal education such as this income will admit of Reuben, William, Alfred, Sally, Melinda and Nancy. Appointed John LANCASTER and Thomas S. GREEN executors. Signed James EWING. Wits. Henry DICKENS, Jr., Lyddia DICKENS, James E. SEXTON.

1810, Dec: Will proved, Smith Co., TN. Letters Testamentary granted to John LANCASTER, Thomas S. GREEN the other executor therein named refusing to qualify.

Thursday, February 8, 2024

James Ewing, Jr - Probate

 James Ewing – 1758-1810
Tennessee, U.S., Wills and Probate Records, 1779-2008
Will Records, Vol 1-3, 7-8, 1803-1896, page 5
Probate Date: Dec 1810
Probate Place : Smith, Tennessee, USA
Inferred Death Year   1810
Individuals Listed       13

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Wednesday, February 7, 2024

James Ewing, Jr's Estate is settled

 Our 4th great grandfather's estate was settled by his oldest son John Ewing, who was a son by his first unknown wife. Many clues about this family can be found in the research done by John Ewing's (b.1785) family. See the following and the source at the bottom.

History of Logan County ILL Vol 1 Chapter VI Early settlement

James Ewing, Jr’s (1758) son John S Ewing(1785)

James’s son John S Ewing married Elizabeth Dillard sister to our Ladovsey Dillard.

They were daughters of Osborn Dillard and Nancy Petty
There is much information about John S. and his descendants.
This information was from Nellie Ritchie in 2015. Her line is John S. Ewing.
 
John S. Ewing
Birth 10 April 1785 in Tennessee, USA
Death 3 March 1847 in Lawndale, Logan, Illinois, USA
Marriage to Elizabeth Dillard (sister to our Ladovsey, 2nd wife to James 17
1805 — Age: 20
Elizabeth Dillard
Birth 25 Feb 1791 in North Carolina, USA
Death 11 March 1854 in Lawndale, Logan, Illinois, USA  
 
The following was taken from the History of Logan County Illinois, Published in 1911.
John Ewing was born in 1784 in Eastern Tennessee.  In 1804 he volunteered in the Indian campaign and served during the War of 1812.  He married Elizabeth Dillard, a native of North Carolina.  They lived in White County, Illinois, having come to Illinois while it was yet a territory.  Here, Christopher C. Ewing, his son was born in 1818.  When John Ewing settled in Logan County Illinois in 1829, the Indians were their neighbors and were often troublesome, even quarrelsome.  The Black Hawk war broke out the year following their settlement, and the oldest son enlisted and served till its close.  There were four children in John Ewing’s family besides Christopher C., namely:  Osborn and James, who moved to Kansas; Sidney, who moved to Iowa, and William who moved to Kansas.  Christopher Ewing remained with his parents until his majority.
 
They lived for a while in White County, Illinois, having come to Illinois while it was yet a territory. Here, Christopher C. Ewing, his son, was born in I8I8. When John Ewing and his family settled here,
the Indians were their neighbors and were often troublesome, even quarrelsome.
The Black Hawk War broke out the year following their settlement, and the oldest son en1isted and served to its close. In the summer of 1835, Christopher C. Ewing and his brother hauled a load of wheat to Chicago. They drove an ox team and were two weeks in making the trip and six weeks in completing the journey home. They sold their wheat at seventy-five cents a bushel and loaded their wagon with salt, sugar, coffee and the like. Chicago was then a small village with two or three grocery stores on the north side of the river, a dry goods store and a grocery store on the south side, the river being spanned by a single bridge. Fort Dearborn was located there, to keep the Indians in check. There was a small store at Bloomington and one at Joliet, also a store at Pekin, but when wheat would bring seventy-five to ninety cents in Chicago, it would only bring fifty to sixty cents in Pekin. White supplies were cheaper in Chicago, hence the settlers would often make the longer trip to market.
 
Christopher Ewing remained with his parents until his majority. In 1838 he was elected as captain of militia, withThomas R. Skinner being Colonel of the regiment. In I842 he married Margaret Ann Williams. Two years later he was elected Justice of the Peace which office he retained four years. In 1849 his wife died, leaving two children. He was re-married to Adaline Metcalf, who died in 1877. In 1878 he married Elizabeth Ellis, a native of Ohio. Mr. Ewing died February 9, 1887, leaving a widow and twelve children. In 1849 he was elected as Associate Justice to the County Judge, the County Court, under the law in force at that time, consisting of the County Judge and two Associate Justices. He served until 1853.
 
In a letter to the Old Setttlers' Association of the county, Mr. Ewing (Christopher) said: "I emigrated with my parents from Tazewell County about May 30, 1829. We settled upon the border of Kickapoo, about one mile west of where Lawndale now stands. My father brought with him about 15 head of cattle, besides other stock. "We had to settle on raw land there being little cultivated. We broke sod and planted sod, come about the twenty-fifth of June, on which to winter our stock. The fall was very favorable and the corn matured well. There was any quantity of blue-stem prairie grass, and of this we availed ourselves abundantly. Yet we had to buy corn and haul it four miles. Cooking stoves were rarely seen and a match hadn't yet been thought of. On our long trips to Chicago, we had to keep a supply of flints, steel, tow and punk."
 
Mr. Ewing died February 9, 1887, leaving a widow, Elizabeth Ewing, and twelve children.
 

Tuesday, February 6, 2024

My 4th Great Grandfather - James Ewing, Jr. (1758)

 James Ewing, Jr was born in 1758 and died in 1810. He and his second wife, Ladovsey Dillard, were the parents of my 3rd great grandfather, William P Ewing. 



James Ewing, Jr. 1758 and his first wife, name unknown.





Sunday, February 4, 2024

Growing Up In Small Town America Part 5

 

JUST A COUNTRY GIRL

Mother lived by proverbial sayings, of which there are many even sprinkled throughout this paper: an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure, anything worth doing, is worth doing right, etc. The list goes on and on. It was a quick and easy way for Mother to make a point. I continued to use these sayings as they are just part of me. When I went to Baylor and used them in my natural dialogue, some people looked at me as if I had grown a third eye.

Back then, I never dreamed of seeing a guy wear an earring or shave their bodies.

Tattoos were frowned upon and were considered as making someone look like a tramp or cheap. Why would we destroy the natural beautiful skin that God gave us?  They were mostly only seen on military guys and not many of those. Making-out became the term for what mother called sparking.


Martin Ewin Brooks Jones loved Mission Work

MEB settled in Vernon for a short time, and Martin Frank (my uncle) told me that MEB (my grandfather's great-grandfather) knew my Papa M...